When Writing Gets Hard

Since the death of my partner in August, I’ve struggled with writing.

Everything was so raw that I couldn’t find my words. I was frustrated, as writing has been one of the ways I have processed painful experiences and emotions.

Not surprisingly, my frustration made things worse. I also started to worry that I would fall behind with my newsletters and blog posts. I felt that I would be letting people down.

Finally, I gave myself a break and reminded myself that:

1. No one will die if I don’t publish a newsletter or blog post. A quick note or email explaining the situation would be sufficient.

2. I’m human, not a machine.

3. Nothing is worth damaging my physical and mental health for.

4. Things will get easier.

5. I need to put myself first.

I haven’t made any progress with my novel or poetry book, but I know I will pick them up again when I am ready to.

If you are finding writing difficult for whatever reason, give yourself a break. Being frustrated and angry with yourself is understandable, but not helpful.

Take care of yourselves.